Ladies.....How's everybody doing today? Good I hope. Please don't take the title of this blog as arrogance on my part. I'm just stating my opinion of myself, because I believe that I do everything that a Mr. Right should do for his woman. None of what I'm about to say is gospel, this is just my opinion of what some women could do to find Mr. Right. It's aimed at helping any reader stimulate their minds to think about what they just read and see if it could have an impact for the better on their lives. So with that disclaimer said....here we go.
Tip #1
MAKE SURE YOU HAVE A LIFE!
This is an extremely important tip. You need to be Mrs. Right to attract Mr. Right. No man whether Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong is going to make you into a better person. Example: If you're not particularly diligent/hardworking, or you're extremely self-indulged or lazy....finding a guy who's everything you're not isn't going to transform you into his equal.
Work hard at changing your own character defects first. That's the first step. Only then will you be able to truly be deserving of finding Mr. Right. If you're unsure of what you may need to work on to better yourself....ask your mother or father....they'll be more apt to tell you the truth before friends. Once you figure out what exactly it is that you need to work on....actually start working on it....striving to become more well rounded. Try doing things that will make you a better person....finish getting your degree, volunteer with others that are less fortunate than you are, get professional counseling if there are some deep rooted problems that need to be addressed. The bottom line is this, you must first learn to be happy with yourself, you will only be happy in any new relationship if you are happy within yourself first.
Tip #2
BE REALISTIC WITH YOURSELF
In other words evaluate how attractive you truly are and look for someone on that level or slightly above. There aren't many people in everyday life that look like the models we all see in the magazines. If everyone looked like a model....there'd be no real work getting done in the fields of engineering, teaching, government, etc. We'd all be laying on a tropical beach getting our picture taken. (Doesn't sound too bad....but how realistic is that?) While we're not all models, we all do have something going for us. We just have to figure out what that is and accentuate/enhance it. Build our look around that outstanding quality/feature. This is not always easy because of the way the media makes us see ourselves. According to the media, everyone should have a size 2 waist (for women), size 30 (for men) with the body of a god/goddess. We all have to realistic and true to ourselves. Ladies, if your a size 12....don't try to be a size 6. There are some things that look great on size 6's, that are going to look hideous on size 12's. Accept yourself for who you truly are and dress accordingly.
This goes to both women and men.....Don't look down on yourself or assume that no one's going to want you because you're a certain size. There are people out there who like a little more meat on their partners. But just because there are people out there who have that preference, doesn't mean you can just let yourself go and not worry about it though either. You may not be able to be a size 2, but if you care for yourself and keep up your appearance....you can be a bigger person that catches eyes and turns heads. In other words, just because you're a bigger person....doesn't mean you can't be up on the latest fashions, get your hair, nails, toes done. Do all that to maintain yourself....the point is....no one wants a slob. People want to be proud of the person on their arm, not embarrassed, so take some pride in yourselves and take it up a notch. Carry yourself better and better opportunities will be presented to you.
Remember.....You're Worth It.
J. Earl Smith
@JSmith2523 on Twitter
knourworth@hotmail.com
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