This weekend marks a very popular weekend around the city of Orlando....It's Florida Classic Weekend. That means that the clubs and bars will be packed out this weekend. There's nothing wrong with going out and having a good time. But, (and this is to the fellas out there).....let's be respectful toward the women of Orlando and the surrounding area. This is not a pitch for guys to show respect for this particular weekend....this is just the weekend that many guys can start to change their ways toward the ladies.
It irritates and frustrates me as a young black man to see so many other young black men treating black women like they aren't one of the most beautiful creatures that God ever created! Try starting a conversation with a woman, listen to what she's saying, look into her eyes and not at her cleavage. I can say from personal experience that starting a conversation with a woman and actually listening to what she's saying is far more appealing from a females standpoint than you come up behind her and grinding on her.
Try ASKING her if she wants to dance!!!! And if she says "NO"....move on....there's no need to be ignorant or disrespectful. I've never understood why a dude would feel the need to scream on a girl, or disrespect her if she didn't want to dance with you.....that's laughable and shows how really INSECURE a lot of these "so called" players really are!!!!
So I'll end this little rant with this.....
REAL MEN don't disrespect women! Little boys do! And anyone who disagrees with what I've stated here.....I really DON'T CARE!!!! I'm voicing my opinion, and you don't have to like it!!!! I've just come to realize that we'll never stop being portrayed as ignorantly as a people until we decide to change things for ourselves....NO ONE is going to do it for us!!!!!
Try starting this weekend. Go out....enjoy yourself, treat each woman that you interact with respectfully....and see if things don't end up better!!!!
Remember......You're Worth It!
J. Earl Smith
@JSmith2523 on Twitter
knourworth@hotmail.com
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