Don't Play His Roll

It's funny to me when I hear these so-called relationship experts and matchmakers say that women need to change who they are or start acting like a man in order to find love. I mean, really think about that concept. Why would God have created men and women with such different emotional makeups, if he intended, all of us to be exactly the same? What fun would it be, if we all thought the exact same way?

There'd be no variety, and life would be an intense shade of boredom. I mean really, why should women need to learn to be "like" a man, in order to land one??? In my opinion, if a woman has to be more like a man in order to catch the attention of a man, then couldn't the argument be made that he may have actually been searching for a man!!! That may not be politically correct to say, but that's how I feel. No woman should have to compromise her emotional makeup in an attempt to feel more connected to a man. Chances are....if that's what a "man" is looking for....he's looking for someone who's equipped the same way he is.

It breaks my heart when I see young women having to play roll of mommy and daddy at the same time. Having to lose some of that femininity within themselves in order to assure that if they're raising a boy, he turns into a MAN!!! This is a difficult situation for any woman to find herself in; especially since this isn't the roll that God designed for women (but we'll get into that another time).

Overall ladies....don't allow yourselves to be changed and transform into something you weren't meant to be. This goes for those ladies out there who allow themselves to be turned into the head of the household, primary breadwinner, and decision maker, while some good for nothing guy mooches off their hard work.

Remember....."You're Worth It"
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