Sunday, December 18, 2011

Being A Man

There are too many young men these days who are being overly nurtured. They're growing up with a complex and horrible misunderstanding of what it truly means to be a man. The over-nurturing is causing these young men to grow into babies who are too afraid to discontinue their foolish actions and grow up. These misguided individuals believe that showing emotion makes a man soft. Therefore young men begin suppressing their emotions because by societal standards...showing emotions make you weak or less of a man. Showing no emotion according to society is what defines a man's masculinity. Simply stated, one suppressing their emotions is being fake and if someone is being fake or not maintaining their own integrity, how can they truly call themselves a man? There is no place for a man to be what's considered MOIST. Being MOIST is when a seemingly hetero man has homosexual tendencies or participates in suspect actions. ( wearing skinny jeans, nails, murse's, feminine hairstyles, etc.) These things are not conducive or tolerable for a man. In the end being a man comes down to truth and integrity. A man must stay true to who they are. Don't conform to the societal stigmas. If you're monogamous, be that to the core. Don't try to be something you're not because if you do, you begin to lose a true sense o your self and start slowly turning into the anti-man!